Obligations

I have a feeling this post is going to go through many, many edits.  Even then, I do not think I will manage to get my point across without offending some people.  However, in the spirit of my reboot, I will not hold anything back.  I’m open to discussion about this and indeed anything even if I haven’t posted about it. The debate is healthy as long as it is not hostile. With that out of the way, let’s begin.  I lay awake a night or two ago thinking about the way we sometimes feel obligations to say or act a certain way.  A lot of the time, these feelings come from a good place, but this post is not about those feelings.  This post is about feeling obligated to do something when you don’t feel like doing something.  The kind of things that if you didn’t do, you’d feel …

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